Relations

Relation! How can we define a relation.What are the aspects of
revolving around a relation.How can we adjudge a relation in
simplest of terms.

I mean to define a relation between two individuals as thought of
responsibilities,fragnant with love and filled with emotions.You
lack anyone of them and you lack in the basic instinct of a
relation.

When i just move out of my house.I am met across by a market full
of shoppers.I decided to take a walk at five in the evening to get
a rush into the people around us who EXIST around us,in his world
itself,but are so far that we can call ourself alone

I see all kinds relationships existing there.relationship out of
acquaintances,love,affection and mere motives.I see a busy middle
aged fellow who seems to return home after the day's hard work.
With an expression of contentment on his face.He goes home feeling
strong about his RELATION with his family.I can observe the veggie
market stuffed with ladies who belong to all strata's.The ladies
are referring to the vendor with all kinds of relations whih could
fetch her advantage of a few annas but such relations comes for
free and the vendor is himself smart enough to show his concern of
the types of veggies required for the house of his each customer.
"Mam would you mind taking a few carrots as well for your loved
one,They are FRESH"

I even see a small child going about, playing his heart out in the
game of cricket which is usually referred to as GULLY CRICKET.
He hurts himself and is at once called up stairs by his mother.He
runs to her as if there is no end to his pain without his mother
showing the value of the priceless RELATION with which he is
blessed by all mighty.The mother at once takes him in her
arms,washes his wounds,cleaning the cloths,giving some advice
along with some refreshing drinks and keeping him close to
herself.Thus reflecting the passion of the most wonderful
relationship of them all.
Then i go on further and observe a few group of college goers who
are drunken i youth,blinded by ego,tired with clashes in their minds.
These relationship shouldn't be filling even one of the criterias
given above They are so called friends whose friendship is made and broken
each day of the passing calender.I even see a young boy going
along slowly down the road along with his brother who holds him
strong, abounded with love.The young one suddenly slips but feels
content immediately as his brother is very to beat the hell out of
the poor pebbles who caused all the fuss

I can see an old woman trying hard to cross the road but fails
each time she tries to as the traffic is rattling past her.A very
young boy,probably himself not yet allowed to cross the
street,helps the old lady by giving her some support.A relation
abounds them which is just lasting a few seconds interaction.
I can also observe a few gentleman at the bus stand who are
waiting for their bus and in the meanwhile discussing all possible
issues relating the state from rising oil prices to western
culture to transport problems to cricket.I cannot understand why
do they have to share all their wisdom on the bus stop only.But
such relations are just out of respect for the individual

From all the shades of the relations that i have established uptil
now what i mean to say is that a relationship cannot be valued or
respected by the name of it.Its an emotion!
A warm feeling that captures two hearts and can never be
established by blood,race,creed or religion.Its credit can never
be claimed.Its essence can be judged.It has to be regarded as a
feeling and feeling alone.No one other than the person involved in
the relation can judge a relation.Be clear,correct and caring for
your relation and believe me these three C's shall benefit
you.Whats essentially can be taken out of the whole passage is
that never can two people belonging to the same religion or family
be related.
Why are brothers/sister specifically called REAL BROTHERS/SISTERS.Whats real in them,their substance or relation.I can never understand WHAT ?
For heavens sake just stop conditioning things!!!

So keeping with this prospective it becomes evident that even an individual
cannot be related to his god.Thus a hindu can worship Allah and a
muslim can be in divine with Rama. So when it comes down to individual only then religion
loses its existence! So there is no religion its individual that present in blood and soul

At last it becomes a conclusive that no one in this world can relate two souls.They can be related to each other by them and them alone.They must feel for it,love it,treasure it,respect
it,value it and if they came move just a step forward then they can worship it

Growing Up

Life is so complicated.A plain and simple statement that just goes
past readers eyes and he just misses the essence of it which can
be realized only by someone who has gone through all this.The
PEOPLE very close to your hearts throughout your childhood remain
close until their hearts are theirs when someone else completely
out of the blue comes up and holds the strings of the heart of
your loved one then your music with him loses its glow.You lose
your childhood dear to someone who steps into his life just when
he is 25.You fell REPROACHED.Ya you really do feel miserable.

But thats life isn't it.You tend to move on and build your own
loved ones all over again.One actually recovers from such loses by
learning that these are the ways of life and we actually fall into
love or we make new friends only with those people who are bearing
a striking resemblance with the personality of the people or
friends we have known from our childhood and all these new friends
are very much the new gift which rejuvenate our life.The ardor of
the former relation is surely reduced but not left in the cold.

We have to grow in many spheres of life like socially,relationship
wise and mentally.Such new relations are mere reflection of such
growth which is so plain and transparent.

Taj Mahal

Is the motif for India on countless tourist posters
and has probably had more camera shutters clicked at
it than any other edifice on the face of this earth.
How easily one forgets that this unequalled monument
of love is in fact a tomb, the burial place of a woman
who suffered 13 times the pain of childbirth and died
in agony at the 14th attempt. Perhaps that makes it
all the more appropriate as a symbol of India - a land
of beauty and grandeur amidst suffering and death.

The Next GEN

Hello everyone,

Well, we all now believe that India has surely transformed into a new era.We are living in a time where the children are breed apart from their parents.And their countless emotions reflect in their personalities.So here comes my question tell me one such event where the youth of India has shown its transformation in the new age and encapsulated all the.It might be an event portrayed by an Indian personality

I shall give my opinion in the following mail.
Rag your brains a little and ponder at ur leisure. This will surely help you in understanding the face on INDIA

No one who saw the match betwenn india and south africa at the wandeer's ,johanesburg can forget Sreesanth running down the pitch in triumph after hitting andrew nel over his head for a six after andrew nel's spurring words on shree's honour and proud

It is the attitude of an India that can hold its nerve and flex its muscular strength, an India whose self-confidence is rooted in the sober mind of self-knowledge ("I am a fast bowler," said Sreesanth), an India that says to the future, "come on; I am not afraid of you."

Sreesanth's extraordinary hit over Nel's head for six encapsulated for me all that is different about the new India: courage, assertiveness, a refusal to be intimidated, a willingness to take risks and ultimately the confidence to stand up to the best that the outside world can stare at us.

The Yanni Pill

hello everyone

Today is quite a special day for me. I am on the net for 2 hours now. I have at last succeeded in changing the theme of my i pod.

i have 50 scores of YANNI now in it.You might not know him so let me explain what he is all about

He is a man of brilliance with his piano.His best scores are as follows:

IN THE MORNING LIGHT

THE END OF AUGUST

PATHS OF WATER

A LOVE FOR LIFE

BEFORE I GO

FLIGHT OF FANTASY

THE MERMAID

A WORD IN PRIVATE

QUIET MAN

NOSTALGIA

SONG FOR ANTARCTICA

well the list goes on indefinitely so do catch on some of his music because i cannot help appreciating him again and again.
I don't want all of you to be untouched with his magic.He is really good.His major albums are (The very best of yanni,In my Time,Devotion,Yoga zone)

Bye

Shobhit

"Take the Yanni Pill of relaxation every day and keep the doctor away"

Saawariya Fervor

Hi

i do not know how om shanti om turned out for all.But i tend to feel that when i saw "SAAWARIYA: i could not understand what sense or impact it had.Now after 2 days i am releasing the cinema.essence,faith behind it.It was quite a nice movie in terms of the different emotions portrayed in it.It had mad love,young love,true love,mother's love etc

It was a movie based just on a basic theme of the extent of love without a proper script to support it or rather with a proper example to portray it.But i just try to sink beneath the sheath of the movie,just forget the ranbir's,bhansali's and sallu..u see a gr8 message and commitment in it.U see a serene truth and soul in the vision which is just so correct.

At last i shall conclude by saying,no one of us enjoyed it as it lacked the :::shik dum:::: content but just give it a thought and u would instantly realize the realm of a lifetime behind.It meant a lot more than what we could construe out of it.

Shobhit

Space Desires

The sky is dark and keeps on fascinating us by its charms.The stars seem to be drunken in a sparkling wine and the wind seems to add some ardour to it.

We all live a life of fantasy.We all dream to reach the skies one day.Some adventurous souls even want to break the height of uncertainity and reach the space or search for the land unknown.But since ur first efforts in the 1960s how far we have accomplished our soaring of the sky.

I am happy to tell you all that we have reached quite far.India has already launched its first satellite by its own base.The basis lies how to prepare ourself ofr a long journey into the space.We take weeks to reach to moon so imagine how will wecarryout journeys to other planets taking more than 15 to 20 years and even a lifetime.

The major obstacle in this regard is the presence of cosmic radiations in the space.They are extremely harmful for our life and its possible that the astronaut or cosmonaut might die due to fatal disease during the journey.But a proper space suit might help the cause

So we encounter another obstacle ie to realise that we homosapiens are social animals and thus require a surrounding to interact.How can we imagine rising up in an enviorment were there is no morning and no radical change in our surronding details can me very depressing
And in that mode of stress and depression the space men might break into arguments during the journey among the co travellers.In such a case, you might wonder that the people on earth controlling the flight details might help them but we must realise that we are talking about such long term journeys where even radio signals take days to travel back to earth

Thus we must have someone to sort out the matter there itself.So some programers r developing a software which reads the facial expressions and try to guess the mental stae of the individual.Thus a computer councellor can work well
But we can even not imagine our lives without entertainment.So its becomes necesary to find a solution to that

Thus we came upon a wonderful conclusion.Instead of sending experienced scientists on such journeys its intelligent to send youthful couples on such errands who can develop their families on the way.We now plan to send a society of individuals who are compatible with each other as they solve the problem of clearing the air if anyone breaks in a fight and even providing usch reconcilation among them

But a totally new outlook lies in the fact that instead of making the surroundings adapt to us we should develop ourself to fit the changed enviorment.We can change the structure of the future humans by transplanting the genes to fit the space.By developng individuls who are borned for space errands.Like we can add a protein found in cockroaches to safe us from the cosmic radiations.The essence is simple we need to reinvent ourself.We need to search for permanent solutions to such problems and then we might develop such an human one day who can match r requirments of a specific planet.We cannot relate the enviorment of different planets to us right now rather we modify ourself to be accustomed to such planets

Thus it becomes evident that in the centuries to come we might find different species which r somewhat similar to humans residing in different regions of space.I believe....